If we think about it, we have many relationships and many of them are pretty strained. Yes the relationships have good moments but, there are some pretty big bad, stressful, and unhappy moments as well. The first thing we tend to do is to blame the other person in the relationship rather than looking are our contribution to the problem and turning to God first. The key solution, which is rarely ever the first approach is to examine our relationship with God and what needs to change to perfect that relationship first by aligning our life with Christ. This sounds deep, but its really not.
As Christians we are suppose to be living like Christ, so our life should reflect a Christ life, right. That can only be accomplished by giving up yourself totally and trusting God completely. Now this is hard. As a human, with sin, your first approach to relationships is to get your own pleasure from it, as well as all things you do in life. The sincere and real approach should be a whole other motive. Your ultimate goal is and always should be to live as Christ would, love and give without focus of only what you want in return, but because it is what God wants from you.
All it takes is for one participant in the relationship to surrender totally to God and He will mend and restore your relationships to a level you could not even imagine. Try it. I've know it works......I've seen it work.
"When a man's ways please the Lord, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him"
-proverbs 16:7
Tuesday, April 9, 2013
Sunday, February 3, 2013
National Boost Your Self-Esteem Month
Reach out to someone this month, especially our youth. Let them know that this too shall pass, and the things happening now are only temporary, that they all wonderful, they are beautiful, and they are loved. They need to hear this Badly.
Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. 1 Peter 3:3-4
http://www.mhasck.org/news/article72.html
"February is National Boost Your Self-Esteem Month, and not a month too soon for teens who are in dire need of self-esteem boosting. Low self-esteem is a critical issue facing teens today. It has been proven that low self-esteem affects learning and can lead to such problems as delinquency, unhealthy relationships, eating disorders, drugs and suicide. According to most estimates, about 30 percent of today's teenagers are dropping out of high school and every school day 160,000 students miss school because of bullying. Hey U.G.L.Y. has teamed with the National Association for Self Esteem help teens realize they are cool just the way they are."
Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. 1 Peter 3:3-4
http://www.mhasck.org/news/article72.html
"February is National Boost Your Self-Esteem Month, and not a month too soon for teens who are in dire need of self-esteem boosting. Low self-esteem is a critical issue facing teens today. It has been proven that low self-esteem affects learning and can lead to such problems as delinquency, unhealthy relationships, eating disorders, drugs and suicide. According to most estimates, about 30 percent of today's teenagers are dropping out of high school and every school day 160,000 students miss school because of bullying. Hey U.G.L.Y. has teamed with the National Association for Self Esteem help teens realize they are cool just the way they are."
Knowing Your History
It is very important to know where you come from. If you never know where it all started and all the history behind you, your family, you culture, and your world, then you will more than likely never know what exactly makes you tic, what's really inside of you, and what you can really accoumplish. Take the time, this month, to explore everything about yourself, even if you are not African American, History is good for everyone.
The Beginning of your History is that God knows you, before you knew yourself, and He knows your future......
For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.
Psalms 139:13-16
The Beginning of your History is that God knows you, before you knew yourself, and He knows your future......
For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.
Psalms 139:13-16
Tuesday, January 8, 2013
New Year, New You......
It's a new year, and that means that everyone is trying to be something or do something different than last year. Making changes, that hopefully will last, but seldom do. If I can think of anything that I want to do, it would be to strengthen my relationships, with God, with my husband, with my children, with my family, and with my friends. This take effort of my part, Even when I can see that the other parts of the relationship are not doing much or at least not as much as me. I want to humble me self more, less of me and more of God, so that everyone can see His Glory first, and not focus on what it is they think I have done so great. Cause it's all Him. I plan to serve even more, for I have found that this is truly the heart of a Christian and is truly my heart and serving encompasses all of my life's goals (from directing the community center, to nursing, to event planning and all giving). I Love it all. I just want to do more, and love it every step of the way.
The best thing you can do is find that thing that makes you the happiest, and ask God and actually listen for direction. He will direct your path.
Proverbs 3
The best thing you can do is find that thing that makes you the happiest, and ask God and actually listen for direction. He will direct your path.
Proverbs 3
1My son, forget not my law; but let your heart keep my commandments:
2For length of days, and long life, and peace, shall they add to you.
3Let not mercy and truth forsake you: bind them about your neck; write them upon the table of your heart:
4So shall you find favor and good understanding in the sight of God and man.
5Trust in the LORD with all your heart; and lean not unto your own understanding.
6In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your paths.
Become a Mentor, Be there, Encourage Someone
I was blessed to have a mentor my senior year of high school, which was something I never thought about before. At first it was really just another way to get out of class and wrap up this long senior year that I as was ready to be over, so that I could "get on with my life." Of course now I am ready for life to slow down and give me time to catch up on my goals and achievements I have yet to accomplish. Unexpectedly, this mentor became an outlet, even though I didn't feel comfortable letting everything out, it was enough to know that someone, a human, was listening and actually seemed to care. Now I can see that God is so much more than I thought at that age. But it is still good to have that earthly contact and connection with someone that can either relate or at least is able to care enough about you to listen and give advise where needed.
Just give it a try, it can be just a kid in the neighborhood, at church, and a near school or community center program. You never know the impact you will have in their lives. It can be extraordinary for you and your mentee. http://www.bbbsatl.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=68&Itemid=69
Proverbs 1:1-7
To know wisdom and instruction,
to understand words of insight,
3 to receive instruction in wise dealing,
in righteousness, justice, and equity;
4 to give prudence to the simple,
knowledge and discretion to the youth—
5 Let the wise hear and increase in learning,
and the one who understands obtain guidance,
6 to understand a proverb and a saying,
the words of the wise and their riddles.
Just give it a try, it can be just a kid in the neighborhood, at church, and a near school or community center program. You never know the impact you will have in their lives. It can be extraordinary for you and your mentee. http://www.bbbsatl.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=68&Itemid=69
Proverbs 1:1-7
To know wisdom and instruction,
to understand words of insight,
3 to receive instruction in wise dealing,
in righteousness, justice, and equity;
4 to give prudence to the simple,
knowledge and discretion to the youth—
5 Let the wise hear and increase in learning,
and the one who understands obtain guidance,
6 to understand a proverb and a saying,
the words of the wise and their riddles.
7 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge;
fools despise wisdom and instruction.
fools despise wisdom and instruction.
Wednesday, October 3, 2012
National Down Syndrome Awareness Month
http://www.ndss.org/
supporting the awareness of down sydrome and the resources for families, for assistance, learning, social, and growth programs.
supporting the awareness of down sydrome and the resources for families, for assistance, learning, social, and growth programs.
Buddy Walk of Atlanta
Walk Date:
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Oct 7, 2012
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Walk Time:
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1:00 PM
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Walk Name:
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Buddy Walk of Atlanta
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Address
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Centennial Olympic Park
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City:
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Atlanta
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State:
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GA
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Zip Code
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30303
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Country
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United States
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- The Buddy Walk program was established in 1995 by the National Down Syndrome Society (NDSS) to promote acceptance and inclusion of people with Down syndrome and to celebrate Down Syndrome Awareness Month in October. The name Buddy Walk promotes inclusion between friends of every ability.
- 17 events took place across the country during the inaugural year of the Buddy Walk.
Breast Cancer Awareness/upcoming Events in Atlanta
Its that time again, a time when the world puts breast cancer awareness in the forefront of our minds. For those affected by this awful disease, this time is all year long. I am greatful and blessed to have had negative biopsies on several instances in my life. The lumps that I have discovered were all by self-examination. I just want to encourage everyone to get your mamagrams and make sure you do your monthly self-exams. It is imparative that you detect this disease at early stages so as to have the best chances to beat it down. Also during this month, make sure you are donating to the cause and getting involved in some of the fundraising and awareness events. We have to get the word out to everyone, early detection is the key. Make a difference in someone's life today!
Making Strides Against Breast Cancer of Atlanta Presented by Blue Cross Blue Shield of Georgia
Upcoming Hot Pink Events
Georgia State University Pink Panthers Football GameWhen: Saturday, October 6, 2012, 3:30 p.m.
Who: GSU Panthers vs University of New Hampshire
Where: Georgia Dome
Walk over to the Georgia Dome after Strides Atlanta and cheer on the Panthers! Tickets $15, enter promotion code: ACS. Click HERE to purchase tickets and for more information. Proceeds from every ticket purchased will benefit Making Strides Against Breast Cancer. Georgia State will also be holding an online auction throughout the month of October with proceeds benefiting Making Strides.
2nd Annual Pink Cocktail PartyPresented by Mary J. Roberts Foundation
What: Celebrating Breast Cancer Survivors, Patients & Caregivers
When: Wednesday, October 10, 2012, 7:00 p.m. - midnight
Where: Museum Bar - 181 Ralph David Abernathy Blvd SW Atlanta, GA
Tickets $27.50. On sale now at www.4jane.org.
Georgia State University Volleyball Survivor GameWhat: Celebrating Breast Cancer Survivors and their Families
When: Saturday, October 13, 2012, 2:00 pm
Where: Georgia State Sports Arena - 125 Decatur Street Atlanta, GA 30303
The GSU volleyball team will be honoring breast cancer survivors and their families at their October 13th game; family and friends can send in the name of a survivor along with a short description of their story to be read and recognized during the volleyball match to dschirmer1@gsu.edu or call (404) 413-4171.
Making Strides Against Breast Cancer of Atlanta Presented by Blue Cross Blue Shield of Georgia
Saturday, October 6, 2012
9:00AM
Centennial Olympic Park
234 Centennial Olympic Park Drive NW, Atlanta
234 Centennial Olympic Park Drive NW, Atlanta
Upcoming Hot Pink Events
Georgia State University Pink Panthers Football GameWhen: Saturday, October 6, 2012, 3:30 p.m.
Who: GSU Panthers vs University of New Hampshire
Where: Georgia Dome
Walk over to the Georgia Dome after Strides Atlanta and cheer on the Panthers! Tickets $15, enter promotion code: ACS. Click HERE to purchase tickets and for more information. Proceeds from every ticket purchased will benefit Making Strides Against Breast Cancer. Georgia State will also be holding an online auction throughout the month of October with proceeds benefiting Making Strides.
2nd Annual Pink Cocktail PartyPresented by Mary J. Roberts Foundation
What: Celebrating Breast Cancer Survivors, Patients & Caregivers
When: Wednesday, October 10, 2012, 7:00 p.m. - midnight
Where: Museum Bar - 181 Ralph David Abernathy Blvd SW Atlanta, GA
Tickets $27.50. On sale now at www.4jane.org.
Georgia State University Volleyball Survivor GameWhat: Celebrating Breast Cancer Survivors and their Families
When: Saturday, October 13, 2012, 2:00 pm
Where: Georgia State Sports Arena - 125 Decatur Street Atlanta, GA 30303
The GSU volleyball team will be honoring breast cancer survivors and their families at their October 13th game; family and friends can send in the name of a survivor along with a short description of their story to be read and recognized during the volleyball match to dschirmer1@gsu.edu or call (404) 413-4171.
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